Friday, October 9, 2020

Disinclination/TGIF


Difficult times bring about a different thought process.  Understanding the need to be transparent isn’t always the most appealing and welcoming of situations.  For genuine growth, be prepared to face tense situations head-on. The reveal isn’t always well received.  Relationships on any level will experience peaks and valleys and disinclination.  A shift in the wind brings pandemonium COVID came out of nowhere, the leader of our free world, led us to believe it was a Hoax, some 210k deaths later, we realize that it wasn’t true. 

The current climate as to how we govern ourselves has taught us to wear Masks (figuratively and literally) and we’re advised to social distance.  With that being said, we no longer go to the office.  We are captives at home 24 hrs a day, every day.  What was taken for granted, is the luxury to leave our home, to interact socially with others, with whom we do not live.  The everyday option for the brief escape, severely saved our marriages/relationships, now uncomfortable silences is presented with options and obstacles. 

Are we to ignore the elephant in the room?   Some endings became the new reality, while in other cases unions grew stronger.  Either way, we realize that we’re no longer on easy street, with tension, you are bound to come out stronger even in a situation where loss may be the actual reality.  
They say that nothing ventured, is nothing gained. I say that the person, I would like to be, when I look in the mirror,, is forward thinking , rational, someone who realizes that He is not right about everything, nor does he have all the answers, someone who is open to the ugly reality. 

I don’t like hostility, yet on occasion it presents its ugly head.  Collectively we must forge through doing the work, when it’s necessary and face it, in truth it’s always necessary, we realize what’s inside, you feel a certain indescribable strength, that you Have, its mental, its emotional equilibrium in the face of perceived adversity, putting all those efforts into place, when the right elements evolve, resiliency can be claimed, for the gain.  

What Are You Doing With Your Life?

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