Two Sides/TGIF

Happy Friday Everybody,

It's been blazing saddles outside in Sunny Southern Kali this week, and for those of you who enjoy that kind of weather, I say have at it. Give me AC and a Lemon Drop, and I'm good :)

The summer does encourage levity in one's personality. I seem to notice more and more people smiling and getting their flirt on. Flirting when tastefully done, can be very appealing, and harmless right? The thrill of the chase of a new love or like, always gets the blood flowing and the intrigue can be startling, and when two people's orthodoxies are put in place many doors of discovery will happen.

So tell me is there such a thing as a happy ending? We meet, do the number exchange and if the elements are right, we might take it there. Next comes the honeymoon phase, the getting to know is always invigorating. You tell your friends about the blissful times and your plans for the future. I've always encourage people to listen to their gut it will never lead you wrong, don't let the heart creep in and allow you to make a bad decision. Time and time again, few listen to my advice until it's too late.

It amazes me how perception and understanding comes into play. I've sat with a group of people and watched a movie, and afterwards had discussions about it. Now bear in mind we all watched the same movie, but our interpretation was vastly different. I think the same things goes with relationships and marriage. When it gets rocky, we come away with things like a 'misunderstanding' and when the matter isn't properly addressed its escalated to a 'Irreconcilable Difference' which can imperil foundation placed.

Communication is 'the sexy' when two people are willing. Having a difference of opinion is true democracy. Mature folks know how to step back and agree to disagree. Repine is the for the immature. This subject matter isn't just about love and relationship, it can be explored in all facets of life, where the art of communication is encouraged and sought. Like the rest of the world, I have not always gotten it right, the mishaps have taught me to be a better listener, which is the best form of communication. You know what they say, we can all sing together, if ON key:), but we cant all talk at the same time, though many try....and you know what that leads to.

What are you doing with your life?



P.S. Pop Superstar Whitney Houston returns to music with her first full length CD 'I Look To You' in stores Sept 1 - 2009.