Epiphany/TGIF

Happy Martin Luther King Weekend,

As we all settle back into complete work mode from the Holidays. Much work and organization is needed. Trying to rid old habits, lost loves, and sometimes lost souls. The destination to completeness is all the things that we learn along the way. Time and time again, I realize the reward is not to bless with a long life, the daily reward is surviving the obstacles that life presents to us on a day to day. Challenges will always arise. There are days, when I don't have the fight in me, as I'm sure you encounter that same feeling.

Waking up and being blessed to see a new day, we do not know what we will face, and what mountains we may have to climb. Amazingly your survival skills gets you through, and more so than not, we don't realize the strength from within, that we possess. Epiphanies are visual realizations about one's self. Successes can come in small or large doses. Surrounding yourself in a new social group brings about new opportunities, doing things the same ole way, brings stagnation.

Ordinary doesn't have to be attached to your eulogy, I find similar circumstances begets the same outcome, be in those dealing in friendships, or people who allow love to abuse them, will generally hang out with those who have familiar stories. Being plagued by love and rejection, that group tends to surround themselves with enablers. While the heart breakers tend to flow in packs together. The movie "He's Just Not That Into You'" it was simple, but all very accurate. Why is it when you get over heartbreak and finally decide to move on...GUESS WHAT, all of a sudden, they realize they're in love with you, and NOW they're ready to give you all the desires that you were seeking. Hmmm TOO LATE!!

Jealously and Envy are nothing new to the rules of life. We hold the tools to our destiny, some will rise to the occasion for change and put forth the gallant effort, and some will not. When you see angry, bitter and disenchantment. Trust me there's a reason for every emotion, and every wrinkle earned. Saying I don't know, should be a simple task, yet so few can express it. I've had to process similar situations. I can honestly say that I grew from the experience and it made me a better person.

The universe moves on its own time table, in life we have to find the right rhythm to coincide with the rules of nature. Life is a dance and numbers play the most significant part. Be it a 4 or 8 count, maintaining the balance will get you the best results, Conflict and dismay comes when you flow against the pulse of where the universe is trying to take you.

We never get there alone. Though many will say that I don't need anyone, we ALL need someone. Learning to humble yourself, and to do it with a sincere heart, is when the rewards are reaped. The beauty of Epiphany is all about realization, and it doesn't matter when you come to it, the thing is that you came to it. Start you own trends, learn from others mistakes, and correct your own. It's a new year, and as I said before it's all about Infinite Possibilities. This time next year, let's see where we are in our lives, I'm aiming for exuberant masterpieces.

What are you doing with your life?


P.S. Let's send a special prayer to all the Haitian families who were affected by the 7.0 earthquake.