Deviation/TGIF

Happy Memorial Day weekend everyone,

In life playing a role is when you try to live up to others expectations, and often time you're not being true to your authentic self. When trying to be someone other than yourself, it can lead to angst and disappointment. Each encounter that you exchange with another, is to present to that person or persons, who you truly are. Honesty goes a long way, and it's a innocent purity. To allow someone into your space, says that you trust them, and just as importantly, you feel a certain comfort with them. I've stated this fact before, friendship is a choice, with time you will either grow closer together or farther apart. In a situation where you out grow someone, or they no longer wish you will, its a gigantic step to break off a friendship, and can be harder than ending a marriage, simply because the thought process is that you never expected the friendship to end, unfortunately it does.

To dream in color, is to know that all shades of the rainbow are not always filled with the prettiest crayons, and some days are going to be fill with struggle. You will encounter roadblocks, and the original expectation that perhaps your dreamed for yourself may have a deviation. Having the wherewithal is your right, and if you fall short, maybe it wasn't such a realistic expectation to begin with, seemingly your heart was in the right place, and what matters is that you had a directive.

What Are You Doing With Your Life?