Monday, August 10, 2009

Amelia (Ame) Williams R.I.P.


May 16 - August 10 - 2009
My friend Ame Williams passed away today. We met in 1991. We shared many triumphs, laughs and heart ships. Ame was very special, she always made time for me, and she was so willing to be a dynamic friend. Her spirit was very quiet and unassuming, her intelligence and hunger for knowledge was always present wherever she went. Friendship is one of the only things that we get to choose. I'm a much better and wiser man, because of my friendship with Ame. She taught me about tenderness and sensitivity.

Wherever we go next, I'm sure Ame is there with my Mother, Michael Jackson and so many other's that have impacted our lives along the way. I encourage everyone to take many moments to share love with people who matter most to you. We're not promised a happy ending, the present moment is all we have. Ame and I spoke last week, and she seemed to be in a good place, and we reminisced about our crazy lives,and the crazy good times that we shared. She was there for me, when my mother was diagnosed with Ovarian Cancer, and she was a trojan in helping my mother make her transition, and she provided much tenderness, support and laughter through a horrific ordeal.

Amelia (Ame) Williams, rest in peace. Your memory will forever live on with me, and all the friendships that you touched with your generous heart and grace.

15 comments:

  1. Kev'
    I'm so sorry to hear about Ame. I know how close you two were. This year has been horrific with all the deaths. Know that God doesn't give you anymore than you can bare. Ame had struggles, but was such a beautiful soul. May she rest in peace, and I pray for her family's strength.

    Joi

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  2. may you find peace at this time knowing your friend truly is in a much better place

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  3. Hey Kev,

    I am numb as well about Ame. Thank you so much for sending those pics and the
    youtube video. We did have some good times, hell we had some great times. She
    will truly be missed among all of us I am sure.

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  4. Im Sorry to hear that horrible news. I know I havent't talk to Ame lately
    but it saddens me deeply to hear that she is gone. She was a wonderful person
    with a good heart and an infectous laugh. She was always good at making people
    feel at ease in tense situations. My condolences go out to all of her friends
    and family. May her beautiful smile shine brightly on all of us.

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  5. Thank you so so much Kevin... Ame's smile, her gentle voice and her sense of humor and beautiful spirit will remain with me... she will not be forgotten... she will be celebrated.

    Love to you and all her extended family

    Bea

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  6. KEVIN

    I AM SO SORRY TO HEAR THE NEWS.
    I JUST ASKED YOU ABOUT AME LAST MONTH.
    HAD SHE BEEN ILL?

    I KNOW SHE WILL BE MISSED BUT I WILL NEVER FORGET HOW SWEET OF A PERSON SHE WAS AND HOW MUCH SHE LOVED AND RESPECTED YOUR MOTHER. NOW THEY CAN HAVE A HALLELUJA GOOD TIME AND WAIT ON OUR ARRIVAL.

    WE ARE ALL JUST ONE STEP AWAY?

    HOLD UP NEPHEW, I NOW HOW SPECIAL SHE WAS TO YOU SO HOLD UP THE BLOOD STAIN BANNER AND KNOW THAT GOD DOES NOT MAKE MISTAKES.

    WE LOVED HER BUT GOD LOVED HER MORE.

    LOVE YOU

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  7. Hello Kev',

    This is a blue Tuesday for me as well..My condolences are well beyond the unthinkable...I am sooooo shocked, its like I can't believe it - STILL!. I truly, truly hope that you will be alright, because she was so near and very dear to you....Likewise, but with less heartfelt, but with much uncondional love.....I looked up to Ame as my big sister, although we were distant, but it did'nt matter, because we bonded from the very first moment...I truly again, will miss her....I loved her!!!!!!
    take care cousin and Let's Girlee it Up!...This one's for my AME! Damn!

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  8. THANK YOU KEVIN !

    I truly agree with everything you said about Ame! She was more than just a wonderful person; she was so beautifully kind and considerate that it was a treat to see her at every opportunity. She will be missed by so many!

    ~Davion D. Jenkins

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  9. I am so sorry to hear that. One of the things I'll always love Ame for is the way she took care of your mother when she was ill, as if she were her own. Her loyalty to you was admirable and she displayed the type of unconditional love that’s often talked about but seldom seen.

    I use to say that Ame had the ways of a beautiful woman, and I think we can now see how true that is, because she’s spirit now.

    I won’t try to quantify your loss but I want you to know that I care and that will never change.

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  10. don't have any words to express how sad I am..Ame was a good soul with a kind heart and that doesn't even begin to describe her!!

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  11. AME MY HEART IS BROKEN! REST IN PEACE. THE LORD NOW HAS YOUR BEAUTIFUL LAUGH ECHOING IN HEAVEN... you will be forever missed

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  12. I think of our beautiful Ame every day. I*'m so happy that were gathering in Sept in her honor. We all need to celebrate her life together. She was a rare gem.

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  13. Ame.. sweet, kind, wonderful, giving and beautiful person.. we will miss you.. Sallyanne & Mickey

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  14. DEFINITION OF AME WILLIAMS-LOVING AND KIND... I WILL MISS U MY FRIEND. IM SO HAPPY WE GOT TOGETHER A COUPLE OF MONTHS BACK AND HAD MANY LAUGHS...AKA THE DRAMA QUEEN

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  15. :( just found out about this. I'm glad I was able to find and read your words. RIP Ame :(

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